I met my hubby in a nightclub. But I hadn’t planned to go out that night. I had broken up with a guy that I still loved but he was nuts and his demons kept attacking me. So for my sanity I had to let him go. This wasn’t easy, but his crazy kept accusing me of cheating, which I had no interest whatsoever in doing. So he started regular arguments which was just too heavy for me. Plus, the big plus, I think he was unconsciously gay, so that was part of his issue and I just had to cut ties and keep it moving. But my sister didn’t want to go clubbing alone, so she asked me to go. And I was dressed extremely down, had on flip flop wedges, jeans and a t-shirt. And this guy came up to me, asked for a dance and that was it.
Fast forward, to me getting saved. Last time I went with him to a night club, I almost ran up out of there. The atmosphere was so heavy and dark, things I couldn’t see before getting saved, and I had been there plenty of times before. And the people there all seemed depressed and down. And I ate my food and was like, let’s go. And that was the last time for me.
But he still likes to visit these places from time to time. In fact, one of his friends owns a club and he goes there to see his friend. At other times he and his good friends (all single, lonely and miserable) meet up at the same club for drinks. Sorry to say this, but both these friends’ wives left them, and it wasn’t for cheating…but I understand.
Then I had a dream that showed me he was opening doors to demons by visiting ‘satan’s church,’ which is the nightclub. And in the dream, they only got to me through him. And I knew after that it was a warning for both me and him. I told him about the dream and warned him to stop going, because I believe he can’t be blessed by doing so, but he doesn’t believe. Mainly because I think he’s riding off my blessings, but he can’t see this either.
So yes, his behavior caused a rift and the Most High told me to move on and She would provide me a Kingdom Spouse, someone on the same page spiritually with me. And we would be double blessed together.
But it isn’t easy at all. So it’s very sad, and super hard, but I’m living for the Lord now and gotta do what pleases Her. This is an oversimplified version of everything but it symbolizes the main issue of differences in lifestyle making the marriage partnership ineffective.
I ran into this video recently that confirms a few things. It just randomly popped up. Be blessed!